Both demands are genuine. The native wants to be known completely and wants to determine the terms on which it happens, and the two cannot be satisfied at once. What results is testing, watching, withholding, and a talent for finding the sentence that will hurt most, held in reserve and occasionally used. Attractions are compulsive rather than chosen, and often to someone who already holds an advantage of money, position or indifference. Ordinary affection registers as insufficient, which makes suitable partners difficult to tolerate.
The material signs are exact. Property and money become instruments in the relationship: an account kept separate, a house held in one name, a debt that is never quite settled. Possessions are hoarded and then purged wholesale, sometimes on the same day a relationship ends. Betrayal appears in the biography more than once, given as well as received, and is followed by a period of considerable silence. Sexual jealousy, where it operates, is less about the rival than about not having been told.
No aspect forces more real change than this one, because it costs so much to leave alone. The native who goes on demanding guarantees will keep destroying the thing they were guarding. The one who learns to state a fear plainly, before it converts into strategy, finds the same force available for building: work of great concentration, money handled shrewdly, and a loyalty that does not flinch at illness, poverty or disgrace. What has to go is the belief that power and love are separable here.
What It Gives
- ◆loyalty that survives disgrace
- ◆concentration that finishes hard work
- ◆honest about desire once cornered
- ◆shrewd with property and terms
What It Costs
- ◆closeness pursued as control
- ◆money used as leverage at home
- ◆the wounding sentence kept in reserve
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